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.....................................................................................................................69 Flirting Methods ..................................................................................................................................70 THE DATING CONTINUUM........................................................................................................................72 PLANNING AND EXECUTION ........................................................................................................................72 THE W OMAN YOU W ANT ............................................................................................................................73 THE THREE STAGES OF THE CONTINUUM....................................................................................................75 MEET ......................................................................................................................................................77 Introduction .........................................................................................................................................77 Acclimation Training ...........................................................................................................................78 Jump, and the Net Will Appear ...........................................................................................................82 The Three Second Rule......................................................................................................................83 The Comfort Zone...............................................................................................................................83 Rejection .............................................................................................................................................84 Detach Yourself from the Outcome ....................................................................................................84 The Best Opening Line Ever...............................................................................................................85 Close the Deal (Get the phone number and email) ............................................................................86 Email ...................................................................................................................................................88 Online Dating ......................................................................................................................................89 Speed Dating ......................................................................................................................................90 MATE ......................................................................................................................................................92 Beware of “Dating” ..............................................................................................................................92 TOP TEN DATING MISTAKES ..........................................................................................................93 Availability ...........................................................................................................................................95 Dating and Friendship.........................................................................................................................96 ABB - Always Be Busy........................................................................................................................97 First meeting .......................................................................................................................................97 Show Her Without Telling Her ............................................................................................................99 Just Say No!(Women)......................................................................................................................100 Close.................................................................................................................................................100 What do we talk about?...........................................................................................................................130 NOW, THE GOOD......................................................................................................................................131 GOOD PLACES TO TOUCH EARLY: .............................................................................................................132 GOOD PLACES TO TOUCH A FEW DATES LATER: .........................................................................................132 OTHER AREAS.........................................................................................................................................133 TICKLE KINO ...........................................................................................................................................134 SEXUAL KINO ..........................................................................................................................................134 NLP - ANCHORING - SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES - ACCELERATORS ...............................................................135 BASIC PSYCHOLOGICAL PRINCIPLES ................................................................................................137 PAIN/PLEASURE ......................................................................................................................................137 SCARCITY AND APPRECIATION..................................................................................................................138 FEMALE ATTRACTION...............................................................................................................................139 DEFENSIVE SHIELDS ................................................................................................................................140 PSYCHOLOGICAL POSTURE ......................................................................................................................140 SELF-INTEREST .......................................................................................................................................141 ADDICTION ..............................................................................................................................................142 CONTROL PRINCIPLE ...............................................................................................................................143 FEMALE BEHAVIOR ..................................................................................................................................143 W ORDS AND ACTIONS..............................................................................................................................144 DRAMA AND MEANING..............................................................................................................................144 STROKED AND UN-STROKED ....................................................................................................................145 POISONOUS W OMEN ...............................................................................................................................146 DANGER SIGNS .......................................................................................................................................151 W OMEN AT 30 .........................................................................................................................................151 THE PROGRAM W OMAN ...........................................................................................................................152 THE HIGH-MAINTENANCE W OMAN ............................................................................................................153 PROFILE OF A GOOD W OMAN – THE FOUR ESSENTIAL QUALITIES ..............................................................154 MALE-FEMALE COMMUNICATIONS .....................................................................................................156 QUESTIONS .............................................................................................................................................157 ARGUMENTS ...........................................................................................................................................158 Feathers............................................................................................................................................160 USE HUMOR AS A CALMING TACTIC ...........................................................................................................161 WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT .............................................................................................................163 W OMEN W ANT SEX .................................................................................................................................164 VULNERABILITY / HONESTY / RISK / EMOTIONAL DISCLOSURE ....................................................................165 TESTS.....................................................................................................................................................166 GIVE THEM THE TEST ..............................................................................................................................170 INVESTMENT MECHANISM ........................................................................................................................172 YOUR PARENTS.......................................................................................................................................172 DATING DYSFUNCTION..........................................................................................................................174 MOODS ...................................................................................................................................................174 DON’T ANSWER A W OMAN’S QUESTIONS..................................................................................................175 OVERREACTING (MORE ABOUT W HY MOMMY ISN’T MAD ….) ....................................................................176 BOUNDARIES ...........................................................................................................................................178 JEALOUSY ...............................................................................................................................................179 CONTENTION PRINCIPLE ..........................................................................................................................180 SEX............................................................................................................................................................182 COMMUNICATION .....................................................................................................................................182 SKILLS ....................................................................................................................................................185 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma.– DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. 5 THE DATING BLACK BOOK THE FEMALE SEX TYPES..........................................................................................................................189 SEXUAL W EIRDNESS ...............................................................................................................................191 Watch out for the "I Love You"..........................................................................................................191 Crying................................................................................................................................................191 Infrequent Sex...................................................................................................................................191 Manage Your Chi ..............................................................................................................................191 One Last word...................................................................................................................................192 CLOSING ..................................................................................................................................................193 APPENDICES ...........................................................................................................................................195 APPENDIX I: ATTITUDE ADJUSTERS .......................................................................................................195 APPENDIX II: TOP TEN SIGNS YOU’RE IGNORING THE PRINCIPLE OF TRUTH.............................................198 APPENDIX III: W HAT SHE SAYS/ W HAT SHE MEANS ...............................................................................200 APPENDIX IV: BRASH THINGS TO SAY....................................................................................................202 APPENDIX V: PLACES TO MEET W OMEN ................................................................................................204 APPENDIX VII: BODY LANGUAGE ...........................................................................................................205 REFERENCES AND RECOMMENDED READING LIST:....................................................................................206 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma.....................................................................................................................102 Male Panic ........................................................................................................................................106 First Through Third Date...................................................................................................................107 The Kiss ............................................................................................................................................108 Broken Dates – No-shows ................................................................................................................109 Sexual Reversal Strategy .................................................................................................................111 The Big Test – The Doubt Dip ..........................................................................................................112 The Dance of Attraction ....................................................................................................................113 One Night Stands .............................................................................................................................114 Long Distance Relationships ............................................................................................................115 Short term .........................................................................................................................................115 Avoid the Premature “I Love You” ....................................................................................................117 Paying the Bill ...................................................................................................................................118 Meet the Parents ..............................................................................................................................119 Long Term Strategies – To Marriage, And The Bitter End ...............................................................119 Cheating............................................................................................................................................121 The Long-Term Relationship ............................................................................................................121 Going Exclusive ................................................................................................................................122 Relationship Maintenance Program .................................................................................................123 The Steal...........................................................................................................................................125 MOVE ON..............................................................................................................................................126 The “End” ..........................................................................................................................................127 Start again – Rejuvenation ...............................................................................................................128 KINO OR KINESTHESIS: HOW AND WHEN TO USE YOUR TOUCH .................................................129 © 2003 – Carlos Xuma.– DD Publications – All Rights Reserved – Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. 4 THE DATING BLACK BOOK FIRST: THE GROUND RULES ....................................................................................................................129 FIRST OF ALL, THE BAD.I’m going to blend in some Eastern Philosophy, some sales and techniques of persuasion, some psychology, and anything else I can find 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